Infertile?
UPDATE: apparently I’m having trouble getting pregnant because I have two uteruses!! If I have a small surgery and go on some meds I should be fine to have kids one day.
Hey guys. I’m gonna start off by saying I’m 19, married, my husbands 24 and have my own house (saying this because people judge because of age). My husband and I have been together for 3 years with our wedding anniversary in a few weeks!
He’s wanted kids since we got married since he’s a bit older, but I just recently (past 3 months) have also started thinking I might want a family with him. TMI We’ve always had unprotected sex. And he’s came in me many times while ovulating, and I’ve never gotten pregnant.
We’re 90% sure he’s able to have children and he has no health problems (we only say 90% because I’ve never gotten pregnant lol). The thing is that I may have endometriosis (I’m going to my obgyn at the end of the month to get ultrasounds ect) which I think is the main issue here (I get the extremely painful, irregular periods with bad swelling/bloat, and extremely painful sex).
I was wondering what you guys would do in this situation? Also PLEASE don’t lecture me if you don’t agree, just inform me of your opinion and move on! Also tell me your experiences as young moms (the pros and cons!). The only downside to having a baby I think is how much I travel and love to travel. That’s about it though. Money won’t be an issue ever since his family is wealthy and my family also has a good amount of money (since I know money will most likely be brought up).
It might also be worth mentioning that I have dealt with anorexia in the past which may lead to infertility? But I’ve never lost my period though. ALSO past boyfriends have came inside me and I’ve gotten pregnant once by accident at 16 but within weeks had a miscarriage (but I think that’s from my anorexia Since I was very sick at the time but I just wanna point it out).
So what do you guys suggest? Should I keep trying? Wait? Just see what happens? Also if you deal with infertility give me some advice!!
Please NO drama. Thank you for taking the time to read 💖
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