So my inlaws have had this dog for two years. In those two years she has gotten into multiple fights with dogs over food. They were bad fights. I have also caught her growling at my daughter is she got to close to her bowl. (We keep her away) she also growled at my grandmother, no food involved. 2 weekends ago we werw camping with family. The dog attacked another dog again. I have been bit before (my family tried doing rescues who had been abused, we took expensive training classes not the ones you take at petsmart and teach your dog how to sit) my daughter is 1 she gets into everything. I dont let her lay or jump all over dogs she is carefully monitored. However I do not feel comfortable with her being around my inlaws dog....period. i dont trust her...period. The dog is even territorial over toys. My inlaws babysit my daughter while my hubby and I are at work. After the camping trip I told them I dont want to see Harley near adalynn they will not be in the same room. They agreed and said they were going to build a kennel. Ive waited its 2 weeks they havnt built a kennel my husband and I have made numerous comments about how Harley is not to be in the house or needs to be in another room when my daughter is over. Yestersay i pick my daughter up and I catch my MIL in the process of picking my daughter off the floor....the dog is with them. I said why is Harley in the house? She said oh well we have been watching them. (The whole reason the dog attacks is cuz ppl arent watching her so I dont trust it) so I said NO i made it quite clear I didnt want adalynn with Harley...period. They said well we arent getting rid of her I said thats fine then Adalynn wont be coming over. Im the parent MY rules. I am going to protect my baby. My dog has been over there all he does is submit to their dog. I take him to play woth other dogs and they both actually interact its not one sided. Im also mad because my sister in law said she was gonna keep her eyes open because she agreed with me but when I got their my sister in law was sitting on the couch never said anything. And she knows how I feel. I feel like everyone thinks im crazy and im just tired of being the bad guy and now im screwed out of a babysitter

Update . So we sat down and talked i heard a bunch of excuses and ny hubby father got pissy so i did back it turned into a screaming match...and i have a bunch of other personal life stuff happening and my life is falling apart and i just cant do this anymore