Blowjobs 101??

Question

Hello! My boyfriend is the first boyfriend I’ve ever had, therefore I have no idea how to do anything sexual. He wants me to give him a blowjob but I’m afraid I’ll do bad since I don’t have experience. How do you give a blowjob? How do you know if he likes it? What are some things I should and shouldn’t do? Please help!!

Accepted Answer

Generalities: 
don’t actually blow. They should call it a suck job really 😂 
Go slowly, allow yourself to adjust. Be gentle, don’t bite. 
You do NOT have to deepthroat if you don’t want to. 
Decide beforehand if you want him to come in your mouth or not and whatever you choose, have him give you some warning when it’s about to happen. 
If you start to get lockjaw stop sucking - remember kissing, licking, nuzzling, rubbing against your cheek etc are also part of the experience. 
Use your hand to squeeze/stroke/rub all the stuff your mouth can’t reach and focus your oral attentions on the head.
Very gently stroke his balls, if he responds well to that you can tug on them gently as well. Let him guide you in how rough/strong he likes things to get.
More than anything though: ASK HIM. Seriously ask him what he likes, what he wants. You don’t have to do things that you aren’t comfortable with or don’t feel like you’re ready for yet, but the only person who can tell you what feels good for him is the man himself. 
I know we all want to be amazing at things and don’t want to show our inexperience, but honestly I feel like having a willing girl kneeling between your legs asking you how you want your dick sucked is a pretty strong turn on, even if she’s actually asking cos she has no idea 😂
Take it slow and remember practice makes perfect - don’t expect everything to be easy and perfect and spectacular the first time, just have fun and take note of things that make him crazy so you can focus your efforts there.

Answer

more advice
*use your tongue
*DO NOT use your teeth. curl your lips over your teeth if you have to
*work up as much saliva as you can. the wetter the better
*dont be afraid to explore and tease a little. kiss, lick, suck, the whole nine. Guys arent ready to cum the moment they're hard. that takes work and teasing too, so dont worry about that until you're much further along

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