No respect

I am 33 years old with a 5 month old. I have been married almost 6 years. I have always worked. Once I got engaged I moved where my husband lived since we were in a long distance relationship. During our marriage I worked off and on. I have a bachelors degree and the decided to get a masters degree. About 3 months after I graduated With my masters I became pregnant with our first child. We both decided it would be best for me to stay home. I enjoy being a mom. All of my friends are not married. I’m the only one. They all have great careers and doing great things. My husband has a good career and we share money I have access to everything. And when I was working it was the same thing.

I hate how my friends and family always say “his” money when my husband and I both don’t view it that way. It’s so frustrating when I have to constantly say “our” money. And then I get the sly comments. I feel like I’m not fully respected as a SAHM and viewed as everything I have is because of him. I mean my name is on the house we purchased. My name is on the cars we drive, I’m included in EVERYTHING! It’s just So ANNOYING. Staying home was a choice for me. I have an education and I do plan to go back to work one day. But not anytime soon. Why can’t this be accepted as a normal thing? They all make it seem like I’m wasting my life and doing something wrong by depending on him financially.