So my boyfriend is upset because I didn’t do anything for his birthday. First off he was suppose to be at work. Second he decides Monday night to tell me that he took the whole week off. Yesterday he was asleep all day bc he didn’t stop drinking till 11am. He slept pretty much until the next day. I had my sisters graduation quick ceremony only gone about two hours. He thinks I thought it was her day and I wasn’t going to spend anytime with him . Which he is wrong only gone two hours and had a fit bc he thought I was going out to eat. Not only did he not give me enough time to plan, but kept telling me he didn’t want to do anything and just stay home. He told me that I should of planned something but yet I told him Tuesday let’s go to the store and get steaks . Even his friends mom texted me and told me she could come over with her sons so they can be at our house to celebrate his birthday. His answer was no to his friends coming. Now what more can I do if he doesn’t want to do anything? And then complain to me that I didn’t plan anything for him when it was last minute and didn’t want to do anything even when I told him we can go here or my grandmas house and said no. Am I in the wrong for not doing something for his birthday? I literally feel like I tired and now getting shit for it.