Okay so... around March my boyfriend told me he doesn’t see himself in a relationship (at a time where I thought we were doing really well as a couple and i wanted him to stay). He started becoming more and more distant.

So then naturally I tried to stop caring. I filled my time with things to keep me busy- so from that I stopped texting as much, snapping etc.

(We live at a distance from one another so we don’t get to see each other often at all) A month or two passed and he came down to visit me, We broke up— we cried a bit but agreed to stay on talking terms.

But I continued to fill my time with busy work and would forget to text / snap / call or even care because we broke up and I didn’t want to think about him.

But soon thereafter he saw that I’d hang out with people&have fun, and most importantly keep myself busy. And since then (around end of March / April) he has been so attached and still thinks our relationship has hope. He texted me the other day all the things he misses about us and how much he realized he liked me... but why now?

How is he going to tell me that he doesn’t see himself in a relationship, and then when we do officially cut things off he wants it all back so desperately??

I guess what I’m asking about is his thought process and why he suddenly wants everything all back after his claim of not seeing himself in a relationship...

What do I do? And do I get back with him? Ugh