My wife can get eaten anytime she wants...
I love going down on my wife. I’d eat her three times a day if she wanted. I know that’s unreasonable and anyone would get sick of being eaten that often, but my point is that she can get oral pleasure on demand. That would seem to me to be a pretty cool thing.
I know I’m good at it, I’ve had former lovers tell me I should “give lessons”, I’m a “pleaser” by nature, have an oral fixation and am very enthusiastic about it when I do it. And to top it all off, my wife is the best tasting women I’ve ever been with. Like addictive tasting.
However, even though she says she enjoys it, I only get to do it once or twice a month. When I ask why I get to perform so infrequently, she did once say something about it reminding her that she’s in the doctors office with her feet up in stirrups.
She knows how much I enjoy it, I ask her how we can do it more often, I’d love it 3-4 times a week, but would settle for 1-2 times. I think we are both pleasers and unselfish lovers, I’d really like her to be more selfish. I know she needs to feel more comfortable about it, I don’t know how to help her.
I know I am making this about me and being selfish in some respects, but I get so much pleasure out of performing and I know most women complain their men don’t do it enough.
Have any of you gone through this and became more demanding, wanted it a greater frequency? Became more comfortable? How did you go about it?
Thanks!
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