Kinky vs vanilla

jaxon

I'm genuinely a very kinky person but I for sure dont come across as it. I have happily expressed this and explained everything to my partner but he isnt very comfortable about it. Hes very vanilla and wouldnt dream of hurting me or disrespecting me. I've explained that the pain wouldnt be bad for me but also that I dont want to pressure him into anything. Any tips on getting him to be more comfortable with this?