What would you do??

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So I haven’t been getting on with my boyfriend/baby father for ages now, he’s never here with us, he never helps with money towards anything for me or the baby! He calls me a white bitch all the time, he goes to work from early morning and comes back late at night turning his phone off all day, well I found out yesterday by a mutual friend that my boyfriend/baby father said to him that he finishes work early all the time but he dosent tell me and goes to his friends or his moms, I’m so confused on what to do, it’s hard,  it’s horrible feeling like this  
What would you do?
Advice please ??
I’ve sat down with him many times and said do you want a relationship with me and he says he don’t care

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He said he doesn’t care and you’re just staying!? Girlllll
There was one point in time where me and my fiancé got a to a pretty rough spot. I then looked at him and asked “is this relationship working out? Do we need to split?” And in that moment he started to cry and said “nothing is worth losing the love of my life over and I’m willing to work on this.” And that’s where we came together and fixed everything going on. I’m not saying my relationship is perfect, but when you talk about wanting to be in the relationship and ending it and they act like they don’t care, then they don’t. Go find someone worth your time and energy and show him how you can find better than him. He needs to learn how to treat females

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Pretty simple what do do he doesnt want to be with u. Time to start mending ur heart and healing and move on

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Wait, his response to being in a relationship is he “don’t care”?  Girl it’s all the way over. Personally I think you deserve better; love; attention; etc.

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I would definitely be leaving, he’s lying to you, he doesn’t help and he said he doesn’t care if he’s with you or not? That’s disgusting.

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If someone says they dont care about working out a relationship than believe them. Dont sit still, get up & walk away.

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If he doesn't care, why are you still trying? He's told you his answer. Asking multiple times in different ways isn't going to change his answer. Hear him.
Leave and focus on yourself and your child. You deserve to be loved!!

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Sit down and have a serious talk with him about being together or not. You need to be happy and don’t need to be with him just because he’s the father of your child.

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I would leave. Seriously why waste anymore time being unhappy?! Life is way to short.

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If he says he doesn’t care then he obviously doesn’t lol. He would of said yes absolutely if he really loved you...

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Been there done that girl.fuck him. And his lack of concern.  Stop calling stop caring.. move tf on.  he is comfortable with that behavior and he wont be changing any time soon. And that's facts ..

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