Absent baby father

Fatima

I feel like I need to vent . Ive done a lot of alone thinking but I need some feedback. So my baby father had said he would be there for me during this time of pregnancy. It’s my first but this will be his 3rd. He doesn’t communicate with me and that stresses me out ive told him that millions of times. Yet everytime I do so he says I’m trippin and that’s the reason why he doesn’t see himself with me . Now idk if he’s right but I do know hat I’m not crazy and all I want is for him to communicate with me and be here for me . It’s been a week now and I have not heard from him . But I have not reached out because I’ve always been the one to do so, and I’ve honestly gotten tired of letting him know how I feel and him not doing anything about it. I’ve debated Witt myself if I didnt hear from him by the time I found out the gender (in a month) that I would exclude him completely. I’m stuck and I’ve done everything I could , and at this point if he’s not reaching out to me I’m just assuming he wants out . Help ... I’m stuck on what to do 😞🥺

Update : I notified him if he would be able to take me to my doctors appointment this weekend he said he would but today he just wasn’t answering any of my calls or texts I’m really starting to feel that I can’t truly on him not even for the simplest tasks like this and I’m getting to the point where I’m thinking he’s just seeing someone else. I also feel like I don’t want him involved anymore because he’s not even trying . Not a lot of my friends know I’m pregnant or know that I’m going through this so venting on here helps a lot and I appreciate all of you who are responding your experiences and advice really helps me cope . ❤️