Just found out I’m pregnant & in a long distance relationship

Jere • 30 👩🏾‍🦱Teacher 👩🏾‍🏫 Grad student👩🏾‍🎓 & pregnant 🤰🏾 with my 1st! 🥰

*I accidentally posted this on general pregnancy

I would like some advice on my current situation 🙏🏾

I met my boyfriend who lives in Texas last summer when I went to go visit my niece. I live in California. He came up to me as I was eating lunch outside alone & we hit it off & have been going back & forth to spend time together. I decided to spend my quarantine with him so stayed with him for 2 months. I came back to California because I had to report for work. Looking at my cycle chart I realized we had unprotected sex 2 days before ovulation. We’ve talked about starting a family together & he said he would love to but wants me to finish grad school first. I am a teacher & I am getting my masters at the same time. I have one more year & I graduate May 2021.

I told him about my cycle chart & that I’ve been having some cramps so he ordered a pregnancy test from amazon & got it sent to me. As soon as it arrived I tested & right away it was positive. I’m happy because being a few months from 30 there was a time I thought I would never have a family and that is what I want more than literally anything but I am also extremely nervous because I’m afraid of how he will react. I’ve only known him for 11 months but so far he is the most caring and consistent boyfriend that just makes me feel so loved but I’ve dated people in the past, 1 that cheated after 4 years & one that just used me. I know pregnancy changes things & im just scared I’m going to be hurt again. He does have a 7 year old son from a previous relationship & he’s a great father but idk how he would react with me now being pregnant.

Besides that I LIVE IN CALIFORNIA & HE LIVES IN TEXAS. since I’m a teacher I could get another job there easily but I don’t think I want to just yet. I have health insurance only in CA & I want to finish grad school. I’m so close. But that means I go through pregnancy without him & maybe move back in with my parents so they could help in case anything...then summer next year I would move to Texas (if everything works out) but I also don’t know how my boyfriend would feel about that.

What would you do? Does anyone have any advice for me?