So i just started going back to work and my babysitter is my brother's ex girlfriend who is also my friend. I thought I could trust her with my kids. My daughters are 2 1/2 and 1yr.

So there were things that were huge red flags to me this past work week.

1.She was claiming my kids were sleeping till 9am which I have a hard time believing because they never sleep past 6am for me.

2. She didn't pay attention to my oldest long enough for her to pull a string out of a hoodie (which is tough) and put it around my youngest daughters neck to the point she was choking.

3. My kids were literally playing with trash and cords on the floor that she just left there

4. My house was so hot when I came home that my kids cheeks were red.

I'm getting nanny cams so I can see what she's doing with them all day and im going to tell her what i didn't like amd what i want to see changed when I see her next.

I'm so mixed on my feelings and I know a lot of it has to do with i hate confrontation but my kids come first and I'll stand up for them always.