he got mad cause she asked him to light the grill

yesterday was father’s day and my mom invited my boyfriend over for dinner and he came early. we’re still getting everything together and he offered to help and she asked him to light the grill. he texts me telling me he’s not finna bbq. i see him walk out the front door and i ask my mom what happened and she was clueless. i get it there and he’s complaining she asked him to light the grill and i’m like “is this that big of a deal?” and “would you like me to go tell my mom to never ask me to do anything for her again cause i won’t” and he says no and leaves to the corner store. while he’s gone, i come back in and my mom figures out why he just got mad and we’re talking about it. he comes back tryna act cool and she’s like “i wasn’t trying to ask you to cook my meal” and he walks out the back door saying nothing. i finally go out there and he’s telling me he’s about to go home. finally he gets up and walks through my house and says nothing to no one. later on text me talking about i didn’t respect him because i told my mom and the relationship continuing is up to me and blah blah. so i didn’t care and he’s like “are you sure cause once i go i’m not coming back” and i still didn’t care so the entire night he’s blowing up my phone. today he called me and i answered and he’s trying to be cool but i’m not feeling it because we both made it clear we’re sensitive about our moms so yeah. he’s saying the way he was raised the guest doesn’t have to do anything and blah blah like tf? you couldn’t even have the decency to bring a pie or cake. how dare you. how y’all feel? cut his ass off or talk through it and ask him to apologize?