I hate affection.

Ok some of you really give the most unhelpful answers Lol. Before I start, I’m not really looking for if I should break up with him or not. I want suggestions or past experiences please.

So, my fiancé and I have been together for almost two years. I’m pregnant and we live together. He really is awesome, he’s my best friend. We do everything together and I feel more comfortable if he’s there. I can’t sleep without him next to me and we have a really healthy relationship. He’s very understanding, he works hard, he helps around the house and I know he’s going to be a great dad. I instantly felt connected to him and we hit it off really well. My problem is I have grown to really dislike affection. We used to have sex every day and cuddle all night and hold hands but now when I think about it my skin crawls. I have to consciously allow him to rest his head on me but I get so antsy and hot. And his hair crunches on my cheek and I hate it Lol. Sex is a chore to me now and I never want to cuddle. I don’t even have much interest in kissing him, I just do it because that’s what people do.

The sex I think started to wear off because at some point he couldn’t finish anymore. We would have sex for hours and I would just get tired. I don’t think we have that problem anymore but I think that’s what started my feelings against it, and now I don’t know how to overcome it. The thought of either of us initiating sex makes me uncomfortable.

We’ve since talked about it, but he used to just randomly start touching my pu**y or put his hands up my shirt and it would just make me uncomfortable. I also felt like he was going for sex every time he touched me and every time we kissed he always tried to make it long and passionate. I’ve read this can leave an impression and make some women just “shut down”.

Has anyone been able to bring that spark back? How do I desire more affection?? I’ve never had this problem before, I’ve only ever been on the receiving end and I hate how bad it makes him feel.