I’m just posting this to try and find out if it is normal for my toddler to act like this or see if something might be wrong.

My daughter is 21 months old and she is honestly.... a monster for lack of better words. If a toddler could be diagnosed with adhd, I would say she has it. I love her more than anything but I am losing my mind over here!

Here is a list of some of the things that happen all day every day:

•pulling me up to go into the kitchen but she doesn’t even want anything

•throwing literal hitting screaming biting tantrums at the drop of a pin

•if she doesn’t immediately get what she wants, it’s the end of the world

•cannot sit still for more than 5 minutes

•it’s like she doesn’t even hear me when she’s doing something she shouldn’t be

•does not listen to ANYTHING I say

•no discipline works

•she needs attention ALL DAY. I cant step away for a moment without her freaking out

•rarely plays independently

•makes me hold her and carry her around whenever I’m up and doing something

•I swear, she is being mean for 10 hours every day

•won’t let her father do ANYTHING for her, it has to be me

•wakes up during the night 2-4 times and rises early in the morning

My toddler is the boss of ME. She does not care what I have to say. And if she is just rotten (nothing medically wrong with her) how do I go about fixing this? It’s been like this for months and only getting worse. I am a SAHM and dad is home a lot too.

I can tell that she is not happy and I need to change it but absolutely nothing I do will help her. I swear I’ve tried everything.

We are all miserable

First time mum!

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