UpDATE:

I tested at 5am this morning and it was BFN. I guess I will wait and see what happens. Thank you ladies for the advice.

Background:

My husband (42)and I(36) will have been together 6 years come August and married for almost 3 come July. We knew we wanted kids from the start. He had 3 from previous relationships, this will be my first. We have been TTC for 4 years. We have had all the test done and they said I am healthy. I have tried natural herbs,Pressed, prenatals and folic acid. I have not been prescribed anything just by choice. But...

My cycle is 5 day late and I so afraid to test. I dont want to see a BFN. I get so depressed. I have gotten my hopes up before only for Aunt Flow to come. There was one time I was about 2 weeks late. I went to the doctors after getting a BFN because my cycle still didnt come. So I went to visit family and the day before we were to go to a water park BAM! I have had some symptoms( but it could be in my head) I dont really have an appetite, I have been nauseous, my stomach has been cramping, irritable,tired and a headache.

So my questions is how long after your missed cycle did you guys wait??

When do you think I should test?

Should I wait until the morning?