Ugh parents 🙄

Let me start off with, i live on my own. Completely dependent on myself. I am 17, moved in with some friends and we all have a lease for 1 year at an apartment. I have a stable job, even during the pandemic. I pay my share of the bills, all on my own. Ever since i moved out i started dressing the way i want to, showing more skin but not my boobs or butt. My parents always tell me to stop posting what i want and to cover up more. And that i need a better job and i need to stop partying. Now i dont drink or smoke since i am underage. But i dont see whats wrong with me enjoying a little more freedom of life? Or wearing what i want? They get mad at me if i stay out too late, or not listen when they say to delete my instagram or any of my pictures.

Basically am i wrong? Should i do more like what they want? I respect my parents 100% but its also my life and i dont depend on them and i dont live with them. I am torn, i want to enjoy being myself but i dont want to be seen as a disgrace to them.