Hi ladies,

Well today AF showed and this is our 8 month of trying. We have had 3 miscarriages in that time and have been referred which we are now on a waiting list. We are very lucky as we already have a 3 year old boy (had a miscarriage before him) but every month we are doing the ovulation tests and then finding the 2 week wait hard. Im finding its starting to consume me and I dont want to be counting the days every month. I know when it comes to ovulation that you have to plan to a certain extent but im feeling really down and starting to think there is something wrong with me :( i just want to do a more relaxed approach and not let it be at the forefront of my mind anymore as it can make you obsessed. Any advice would be greatly appreciated x