Anyone else one & done?

I’ve gone back & forth about it since my daughter was born. I started out thinking no i could never do it again, then I started thinking yes I absolutely need another one, & now I’m thinking no i don’t wanna start all over again. The whole time my fiancé has told me he feels like he needs more time before he would be ready for another one. Which I completely understand, because even when I felt like I wanted another one, I didn’t want it to be for another couple years. Well, I just applied for college, & will be in school for the next 9 years if everything goes according to plan. I decided I don’t want to have another baby while I’m in school, & a 9 year age gap is too big for me personally, so we have effectively decided we are a one & done family. I have mixed feelings about it, but I mostly feel good & ready to give my daughter the world. Is anyone else one & done? Tell me about how you came to that decision & how you feel about it.