Spicing things up?!

Question

Hi, Lately I've been wanting to try and spice up my husband's and I's sex life. I try to sext him but he always replies with idk or lol so thats not helpful 🤷🏻‍♀️. Any tips on how to spice things up?

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I would try spicing things up actually in the bedroom first, do something you’re not used to doing, maybe lingerie￼￼? Some people just aren’t good at sexting lol

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There are so many things that you can do or try. It seems like your husband is a little shy to talk about sex so I would try to have a conversation with him and say something along the lines like hey baby I want to talk about our sex lives our fantasies and things we would like to try, you don't have to be shy were in this together and I would never shame you or anything for opening up to me. Ask him if it would be easier to write down these  things instead of saying it out loud. Heck after 13 years of marriage my husband don't like to open up so I asked him if it would be easier to write it down and he said yes so now we communicate a lot more through writing. So the things you can try are sexy lingerie, sex toys, sex games, blind fold and hand cuffs, dessert toppings on each other and lick it off, watch porn together, roleplay, different positions Google karmasutra 101 sex positions and have sex any where other than the bedroom.

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Some people like role play
I know I do

Spicing things up?!

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