Orgasming..?

I’ve never reached orgasming with my boyfriend whilst having sex. I really want to! Any tips, also I bought my first ever toy but I don’t want him to think I’m weird if I use it when we do. I feel it’ll make his confidence go down that he isn’t doing good enough. Both were virgins. But it’s to the point where I wanna finish with him. He gets all the glory for hours on end. I get glory but never finish.