Okay she’s not really my sister in law, but she is my brother’s girlfriend and that’s how I’ve been calling her. She’s been staying at our house since the covid outbreak because the people she lives with asked her not to come home yet because they know she goes out a lot and they don’t wanna risk getting sick. She is an activist and is passionate about fighting for equality, against racism, and others. When I first met her, I really like that she’s strong in her belief and is not afraid to speak out. My issue comes from her bringing up political and social issues during family gatherings and then argues with someone who has a different view. During election, she opened my ballot and texted me to think about my choice because she did not agree with who I voted for. That really pissed me off because I don’t think she should’ve opened my ballot in the first place. Another issue I had was when she went to a protest and told us that she’s just gonna hang out with a friend. I later saw tagged pictures of her in the protest on instagram. My parents have been paranoid about us going out because they both have diabetes and heart problems. My parents treats her like their own and does not charge her a dime, so I feel like she could be more considerate of their health. Should I talk to her and risk confrontation and my relationship with my brother or just keep it shut? 😪