We had a big fight...

Which involved us yelling and me crying like crazy. And now I’m worried about how it’s affected the baby.

This doesn’t happen often at all, maybe 2 or so other times during the pregnancy.

It started with my husband dumping all the stuff I didn’t put away in the kitchen in a pile and he said he’ll just keep piling up my stuff there because I need to clean up after myself. Sure, fair enough, but I told him that it’s very petty dumping all my stuff and that I didn’t get a chance to today because I was on calls all day and have been busy nonstop at home.

I’m extremely under the pump with things at work to do and the enormous list of baby things I need to do and I’m running out of time as my work takes up all my time and leaves me with no time to do anything.

I told my husband I need help, and if it means helping me wash things I use in the kitchen and help me put things away, it helps me because I feel so overwhelmed and have no time to breathe.

It turned into a big thing where he was being apathetic towards me, putting on his headphones and shutting me out while eating. I was really hungry, making myself my dinner and almost vomiting (from the crying as well). I was telling him that he was being rude towards me and I need help and he didn’t care when I told him about him being rude and my feelings and kept saying- okay (with no emotion).

I was bawling my eyes out eventually saying that this is so harmful to the baby, me crying so much and my stomach even hurt and felt tight and I was crying to point of almost vomiting and he just said- okay and walked away downstairs to do his hobbies.

How badly did this whole thing and me being super stressed from crying affect the baby? I’m terrified it will affect the baby emotionally and psychologically..