Would you find this as a compliment?!

So some back history, we use to watch porn months ago (like 7.5 months) till one night while having sex he blurted “I love her body”. That made me feel a certain way because he has never said anything to me about mine and I look nothing like them (I had 3 kids so yea). Yes, I already knew he did but to hear it come out of his mouth it made me feel bad about myself, I lost interest in watching.

So last night my SO and I were having sex, he said he wanted me to pull out my vibrator and pretend to have sex with someone else and talk dirty; so I did (it’s his kink). When we did watch porn together there was this specific girl I liked to watch (so did he, he found her) that while having sex would talk dirty to the camera.

He says “you sound just like Lena in that one video”, I felt bad because I instantly felt like that’s what he was thinking while I was doing it, and not focused on me, I said “oh yea?!” and even though I lost all feeling I continued to get him.

I talked to him after and he said he wasn’t comparing us he just meant I sounded like her while talking, he said the dirty talking was very good. Idk