This is not right.

My partner and I just had our first baby, we are first time parents.

I’m the one that takes care of our baby all the time, she is now a month.

My partners parents and I don’t get along at all, they have hated me since the beginning for no reason.

His mom was jealous was I came into my partners life, she’d call me all types of things, goldigger, bad influence,exc.

When I’m nothing like that, I’ve been by my partners side through thick and thin, through all the struggles and ups and downs because I love him.

She’s always fight with me for no reason, then start crying and being dramatic.

She’s bipolar, one day she wants to bond with me the next she’s fighting with me.

When I got pregnant she tried controlling everything. I didn’t have a baby shower because of her. I didn’t get to enjoy my pregnancy.

I remember I asked her one day if she’s excited about the baby and she told me “no because it’s not Inside of me.”

She was jealous that I was having a baby and she wasn’t.

She also wants my partner and I to fight and argue, she does it on purpose.

She’s mad that my partner has grown up and has us-

His own family as his number #1 priority now and not her anymore.

When we had our babygirl, she wanted to control her and everything from the start and I didn’t let that slide.

When we came home the first day after having the baby - she got into a argument with us because they wanted to kiss the baby and we told them not too due to covid and our rules.

She said it’s a stupid rule and got mad.

This woman kissed my kids face three days ago, she’s doing it on purpose and I haven’t given her my kid since that day.

She got mad at me for taking my kid from her too feed her and put her to bed since it was your bedtime schedule.

Yesterday night the talked to my partner and told him I’m overreacting and I can’t act like this.

They told him that they hate me.

They also told him that when we move out (we had to stay with them for a bit till we found a place because our lease ended for our apartment and the property had fucked us over for the house we were going to get so we got delayed) not to bring me over but for him to bring the baby only- um no. I know they will kiss her on the face and everything.

Don’t get me wrong I’m not being evil those rules are because of her being a newborn and cause of covid. His parents both work around people and they never wash their hands or cover their faces....

I honestly don’t understand what I did wrong I don’t think I did anything, and tbh quite frankly if they don’t respect my rules for my baby and how I’m raising her (because it’s not their kid she’s mine) then idgaf about their feelings and about them.

I won’t give my baby to them until they change, and that’s a right I have.

Sucks, I don’t care anymore. I’m keeping my foot down this time and taking a stand.

They are digging themselves In a hole not me.

Any advice?