I am so fucking done!!

I went to go have my IUD removed because it was honestly just giving me so many problems. I discussed this with my husband and he wasnt so on board. I did it anyway. Now hes pissed so bad that hes basically breaking up with me.

I told him i can still get on bc. Or we can try condoms and hes not having it. We already have two kids and i explained to him that i dont want any more at the moment.

Hes so fucking mad at me and tells me that he had a say on what i do with my body. I told him im not going to have a object inside my body anymore. I also told him to have a vasectomy for he can feel what i feel and he got even more pissed. Idk what to fucking do anymore. He thinks he has any say on what i do with my body. Now planning kids and getting pregnant he has a 100% right to discuss that with me but telling me what kind of birth control i use is just too much.

Guys please tell me if im over exaggerating on this?