So he really wants me and the kids to move back with him to his state.... I finally gained my freedom of him about two months ago... he was very abusive ( more emotional than the few physical times, STILL abuse nonetheless) and he went to ONE therapist and is on me asking me to come back saying he knows EXACTLY what is wrong with him now.... this has happened many times before too, I’d leave, and he’d act mean THEN beg me to come back saying he gets it THIS time AND I swear he is fr a narcissist by the book. Anyways, he said that he was told he has atelophobia (fear of failure and imperfections) .... so THATS why he acted like he was all about himself 🤔. But would that have anything to do with treating your spouse and past females like absolute trash? Emotional abuse? Physical abuse? Leaving to be with shit friends rather than your family that is wanting your time? Name calling? Ex triangulation? Spitting on me? Going to sleep while I’m up crying? I mean someone help me out I tried looking up if that phobia makes the person abusive, if insecurities make you abusive, if jealous husbands get abusive... I don’t think he truly has figured himself out THIS time... I need answers though because he likes to try to say anything that doesn’t point to him being a narcissist, which would be soooo hard to cure and DEFINITELY have me never go back to him.