What to do ?!?

Soo we decided on our baby’s name months & months ago. We were going with Tommy as my partner liked Thomas but I preferred something a little less “old” fashioned.

We didn’t really tell anyone apart from family, then a friend of my boyfriends called his son Thomas not long ago and then another friend we know who lives around the corner from us has just had a baby boy & called him Tommy so now I’m stressed on the fact we have the same mutual friends etc and feel like I now cannot call our baby boy Tommy as its literally weeks apart.

My mam thinks I’m over thinking it and been daft But I feel like people judge and will think we have copied when actually we’ve had it picked out for months! Really don’t know what to do as I don’t like many boy names at all.

Can anyone recommend any boy names that would sound nice to go with my 3 year olds name he’s called ... Jackson.