Only reason I ask is because myself I have been in a relationship with 18 years different and it was very toxic and he used his control over me. I find myself not realizing I’m judging someone and I correct my thinking as I’ve just had a bad experience. I also will say that I have an 11 year age gap and have been judged even for 11 years. Obviously at the end of the day you’re an adult and can love who you want but have you ever just found yourself judging it and not noticing until after? I feel bad but it’s hust from my bad personal experience.

It is nature to judge, best to understand and correct your behaviour if you feel it’s toxic.