Insecure about my vagina

I’m pretty insecure about the way my vagina looks. One thing is my inner lips are pretty long and one is slightly shorter than the other. My outer lips are like.. fat...lol. When I where leggings for example it like bulges out, anyone else experience that? Or in bathing suits, it’s like a lump..👀😂 just laughing at the description. I’m just insecure about that because I never see anyone else like that when they wear leggings or bathing suits so I’m like wth. Another thing is, my clit is pretty big, most people have a difficult time trying to find theirs but definitely not with mine. Especially when I’m stimulated it gets huge! I hate it. It like sticks out. Anyways, this was kind of awkward to type out.. I guess I just feel like the only one that looks like this so it makes me feel ugly and insecure.