Am I just overreacting?? 😞💔 **UPDATE**

Since my original post was a poll question, I can’t edit to update. **Same title just doesn’t say Update ***

Please see original post for in depth details - this overall i had found my SO was once again following women and was liking half naked pics of someone for 3months and I’m 37wks pregnant. He had already done this but worse before being pregnant and while I was taking meds for IVF prep (talking about how he’d fuck so and so and lied about a contact on his phone). So I know what I saw this time is just “likes” but with what he did before I was super sad and just felt .. ugly. Plus he knows I see it as a form of cheating and just plain disrespectful

Also he’s not once posted about our soon to be child or even acknowledges the many posts I do. What hurt was that while I’m expressing our baby shower and bump update, he was busy looking at these women’s pictures and spamming them. Made me feel stupid all over again because the 1st time I called him out that I was putting my body through so much medication just to have his child (he was an infertility) while he was giving women attention and drooling over them.

This baby was 100% wanted by him. He’s the one who talked about TTC.

Anyways, I sent him a text explaining how hurt I was and he didn’t message me back at all. He was at work. The message was sent at 2pm. I figured he wouldn’t bother because he has done this a few times already, he says because he doesn’t want to argue. All I wanted was reassurance or something that told me he understood my hurt feelings. I don’t work so he has his own bank account and will deposit money into mine. I have access to his account, we don’t have a joint. I tried logging in to his account so I can start calculating for August bills since tomorrow is the first of the month. And it said I had the incorrect password. I was confused and looked at my phone notes and it was the same thing I typed in. It came into my mind he changed it but I thought “no why would he do that? He’d never...” so I let it be. He comes home from work at 8pm and I was asleep but woke up and pretended to sleep but made movements so he’d know I “awakeish” (he knows I wake up easily. Well he goes straight to shower and I can hear him get ready to go out ... my heart sinks and I have hope he’ll try to wake me up to talk or something. But he’s about to close the door to our room to head out and by now I’m crying and I say “so that’s it?” And he says “don’t start” and tells me he’s been made plans to eat with all his buddies and doesn’t want to argue. I’m just like “WOW” and I tell him to go eat but all I wanted was for some type of acknowledgement that he Cared. We talked a bit and I brought up the bank stuff and he said he changed the password so I don’t get on it. I asked if he’s hiding anything and he said “no it’s so you don’t take my money” and I got so hurt because I would never and also how could I. It’s not joint, I don’t have his card, I can’t go to the bank I’m not on his account. I started crying more because he really did that ... so I told him I’m done. If he can go get ready to go to a bar and about to walk out without even trying to talk to me or anything inHOURS and also change passwords like that... it means he doesn’t care. I am done. I’m going to give birth any day and I have surgery in September so then I’ll look for a job to save up and leave. He sounded hurt and said well talk tomorrow but he also doesn’t think I’ll do it and he’s also not stopping me if I do. He’s out at the bar and I’m just home typing all of this