What you honestly THINK?

Before anything I want to say I know only he knows, and I can’t type my whole life but please just answer based on your opinion of what you read, I always get comments saying I’m dumb or stupid and makes me feel worse.....

-ok so me and my husband have had problems. One of them is that he says I ask the same questions all the time everyday about our relationship (if he loves me etc) and he gets so mad when I ask those questions and gets in a bad mood and says he’s over my shit etc.... I won’t who into details why I ask I’ll just says he has never cheated or I have never coughed him taking to someone else... one question i ask is if he hides something or lies he always says no, but when I asked have you called anyone that you normally don’t , he says NO.... so I know his password for the app of our phones and he does know I can see who he calls, and I check the #s and never have found any girls.. so today I saw he talked to a guy for like 20 min, it’s jut a family friend but he hasn’t talked to him for a while and we haven’t seen him for months now, and he’s gay but like not a lot of ppl know. I asked him if he hasn’t called him because we have a long time that we don’t see him and he said NOOO he promised he ain’t lying and blah blah also he showed his phone and nothing which means he deleted it ... my question is if he’s hiding something(not gay) that he doesn’t want me to know about or if he’s just lying on purpose because he’s annoyed of my questions...

Also he has told me sometimes he does things on purpose because I annoy him BIT he did say he has never done it once it comes to calling or taking to ppl... what you think?