Your support system during pregnancy and raising children?

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Today I'm  really realizing I dont have a strong support system especially in this pregnancy. I'm worried about when this child comes and will anybody really want to be in their live. Has anyone dealed with no or little support and how did you deal with it ? How did you make it ? Any tips to strengthen my support??

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Me currently , it’s hard . But I have 3 other kids , so I can’t let myself get down or they see & ask questions . I set reminders on my phone , it helps most of the time knowing I have to stay healthy for my healthy lil girl . Try to stay positive so positive things , it’s hard when you have nobody that really cares how you feel or how you & baby are doing . I just think bout how strong I have to be for my babies & tell myself if nobody cares now momma has too !

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I have very little support my mother calls me the other day and is like your pregnant and I said yes and she does were planning on telling me I’m like yes and she goes everything that’s done in the dark comes to light and I told her I know this and she tells me well we know what you have been doing during COVID I’m like seriously 😳 and then she tells me I have no stability that I use my brother and her and my SO’s mom and which I don’t and she proceeded to tell me to my face she was happy that my SO and I were moving and then told if the pandemic was going on would we still have moved I said yes because we wouldn’t have been furloughed from our jobs . Then she told me that well it made it hard to do what I wanted because I had you and your brother and I said wow and she got mad and said well you never tell em anything etc just because I made a post on IG about the baby then goes on to tell me how my life should be and that I need to be on brith control after the baby etc I’m wtf .

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I have so much support I'm so lucky. My boyfriend and my 2 daughters are a huge help at home. My boyfriends mom already watches our 2 girls while we work and will watch our baby boy when he is born. At work all my co workers are constantly getting me food and making sure I'm ok. I am really enjoying this pregnancy because my prior 2 were rough.

Your support system during pregnancy and raising children?

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