Husband keeping nude photos of other women the same as watching porn?

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Short of it: I don’t care if he watches porn. But finding a folder of nudes of other nude women hits differently... Not sure if I should feel the same about it as porn (like he says) or not.

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Honestly to me, that crosses the line. It’s not cheating. It’s just creepy.

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That's disgusting. And I would leave my fiance if I found all that in his phone.

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1 : how are he getting these photos ? is he talking to the woman ? paying for the photo ? 
2 : have you asked him bout it ? 
3 : no it’s 2 totally different things . 
For him to have SAVED photos in his phone , he’s receiving them from somewhere . Porn is everywhere , not nude photos of women !

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I think within reason, if they are image of models or porn performers he has no relationship to and it’s not a big part of his life, it’s not much different than watching porn. If the photos are of people he knows, or he is frequently buying/collecting these images from individual performers it would bother me. I think that’s because it feels more about the women and less about a sexual act he likes watching.

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Noooooo. Hell no, that is cheating.

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If he knows these people, it’s bad. If not, it’s just porn but still

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No not the same . That’s even worse . He has a whole wife but looking at other women !?? Not okay.

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Just to clarify: like women he knows in person? Exes? 
If they’d the case, I would not be cool with it.
But if it’s like models or something, then I don’t think it’s any different than porn.

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Imo that’s actually cheating so...

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Absolutely not!! Oohhh girl I'd be livid

Husband keeping nude photos of other women the same as watching porn?

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