do i check his phone?

i have always been very against going through my partner’s phone because i respect his privacy, but lately he is being so weird.

i asked god/the universe to please show me if he’s done something. i don’t believe he’s cheating with real sex, but i have a very strong suspicious he’s texting other girls. he is extremely secretive of his phone. if i even glance his way when he’s on it, he gets angry, and acts as if i’m invading his privacy. he’s also accused me of doing shit, and you know what they say - cheaters are the ones who accuse. not only that, but he’s liking photos of girls and following and dming them, however i haven’t been able to see the messages.

i hate being this person, but i’m getting really frustrated. i’ve communicated with him and point blank asked why he’s being like this, what hesdoing on his phone, and why he’s so secretive. he said he doesn’t bother me about my phone, and i told him that i don’t even have a passcode...i have nothing to hide.

something inside of me is telling me to check his phone. i just have a feeling, i’m sure you guys know that gut feeling i’m talking about. i’m starting to put the pieces together of other stuff, and i just need advice.

what do i do? is checking the phone a violation of trust, and how do i even go about checking it without him noticing? how else can you figure out who he’s messaging? i need to find out. i’m two months pregnant, and i want to make a decision on whether to stay or leave with him. any tips please.

also want to add, i’m not usually insecure like this, but i’m scared of making a fuss and being wrong. i don’t know. has anyone else experienced this?

update: since so many of you think i should check his phone, how?! 😭😭😭 like when? how will he not notice? that’s part of the problem