My partner has 3 children and he says he doesn’t want anymore but I love him too much to leave and he’s not being responsible using protection and finishes inside of me. If I take my BC inconsistently to try for a baby, should I stop doing that?

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He‘a TELLING you he doesn’t want another child and he’s assuming you are taking your pill responsibly. How would you feel if you didn’t want a child and he was poking holes in condoms? 
You need to stop, and you probably need to leave if you don’t agree on another child.

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He's trusting you, and you're thinking about going behind his back? Anybody that entraps another with a baby (like this) is complete trash.

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That’s a deal breaker.  You both want different things from life.  It’s not a minor issue that you can just sweep under the carpet.  Either find a compromise or sadly maybe this relationship isn’t meant to last.

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You're literally trying to trap him. That's disgusting.

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Communicating that you want a child and it’s important to you is all you can do and then decide if you can handle it if he chooses not to have anymore. He trusts that you’re taking your BC. Don’t lie to him like that. It’s incredibly wrong.

My partner has 3 children and he says he doesn’t want anymore but I love him too much to leave and he’s not being responsible using protection and finishes inside of me. If I take my BC inconsistently to try for a baby, should I stop doing that?

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