How do I react to this?

Maude • •👼🏼C 💙•H🌈•B🐻

So my husband and I got pregnant in fall of 2019! We were so excited after struggling. In February we went to an appointment and with no warning, no bleeding and no cramps etc our baby boy had passed. We were induced the next night and had him, it was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. We’ll end of April my first cycle after losing our baby boy we got pregnant and now we are pregnant with a baby girl! She’s due in December! I’m half way through my pregnancy now and I have pretty bad anxiety. I would be so overwelmed at appointments I would cry. I was so scared they would put the ultrasound in and she’d be gone too. But so far she is perfect. It’s sad because I feel like I can’t have a healthy baby because of what happened. Like it doesn’t seem real like I could just have a healthy baby. My extended family though has been saying something to us the past few times we’ve been over and it hurt my feelings a lot. I think to them they don’t realize how this would hurt us and I don’t want to overreact but honestly I can’t be around it. They always ask us when we go to family things “are you still pregnant?” “Your still pregnant right?” Like to me it just makes me feel worse like they don’t have confidence in my abilities to carry our baby healthy and I already fear that daily. Not sure what to do.