My husband can be sweet and respectful, for some reason he can be with his friends for hours a day, I’ll communicate and tell him I need help around the house or to spend time, I work 45 plus hours a week, and usually don’t get weekends off.

He completely disregards my feelings. It makes me feel second and hurt. He is never home when he’ll say he’ll be. I don’t believe he is cheating, but definitely not putting our marriage first. I feel like I am coming to an end of the broken promises, been together for 9 years. Married for 3. I just feel I deserve better sometimes.

Update after he came home I talked to him, he said he was tired of me complaining about the same things, I told him I am also tired of complaining about the same things. His Friends are always first.. had a big long fight. He said he will stop hanging out with his friends to make me happy. I said that was not the point, I want a healthy balance of our marriage first. I want my husband to hang out with me more than he hangs out with his friends