Does this sound like an unrealistic expectation if you’re looking for a SO?

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Does this description of an ideal significant other sound unrealistic or is it just me?
“Someone who’s self driven, active/works out, motivated, good self esteem, thoughtful, caring, attractive, self efficient, compassionate, intelligent, not scared to wear her heart on her sleeves, not care about what anyone else thinks, confronts things head on.”

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Are you all of these things?

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If this is for a dating app I'd be intimidated as fuck to respond to you. I honestly think when you are dating you need to keep an open mind. Having a checklist isn't a person. People don't fit nicely into boxes we are messy loud and not always easy to get alone with. So maybe try to put something like romantic, good sense of humor, passionate about hobbies. Best wishes.

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Unrealistic? No. But I don’t believe you’ll find someone who is strong in each category. Some people have those traits but it takes someone else, a great partner, to bring it out of them.

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OP update: these aren’t my qualifications, guys. Just had a conversation with someone and they mentioned they want their SO to have those traits. Sitting on the other side of the convo, it sounded overwhelming. I get why they want someone with these traits but man, it seems hard to be that perfectly mentally/emotionally stable woman bc I’m drowning in PPD and anxiety so that checklist sounds far fetched to me. 🤣🤣🤣

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Nah, all of those were on my wish list and I’ve been married to my dream boat for 3 years now. He still ticks all those boxes.

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I think ideally we’d all like to be with someone who checks all our boxes but it’s definitely unrealistic to expect someone to be ALL these things ALL the time. Whoever wrote that better be prepared to show up too 🤣

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I can totally understand if you want all those things in someone. 
But you have to be ready for someone to be really great and check off some of those boxes, but maybe not all of them.

Does this sound like an unrealistic expectation if you’re looking for a SO?

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