My sister & I have babies who are 3 months apart and she is ALWAYS trying to make her baby look better no matter what. I dont know why its always a competition with her. Idk what to do, hate trying to impress all the time. Its not just the babies either she is never happy for any accomplishments I have in my life, always looking for te bad in everything. one example would be we just bought a new house, and she pointed every detail telling me i need to make sure they fix that before i move in, then she went on to say she isnt buying a new house until she can build her dream home and have everything she wants and thats fine and all but why degrade me and my house bc it was already built in a subdivision before i could pick anything out..

she also copies pretty much big desion i make with my life, that family is proud of, when i bought my 1st home she did too a couple months later in same neighborhood, my husband got a job and her husband got the SAME job (her husband hates it but she would never admit that)

• Always has her baby dressed better/ name brand clothes & shoes

• Anytime my baby has something wrong with him thats minor, she makes an extra big deal out of it like im a bad mom for it. example like a rash, or dry skin

•says my baby is fat, in a joking way but tries to keep her baby from getting fat my limiting foods and thinks im bad for letting my baby eat what i eat (he is 11 months old, her baby is 8 months old)

•our babies use the same type of bottle & one day our babies bottles got mixed up and she looked at the bottles right in front of me to see which one was cleaner... 🙄 They litterally looked the SAME but she insisted that one was hers bc it was cleaner...

•She is just very judgmental and Its hard to be around her when she thinks she is the perfect parent and no parent is perfect.