Would you switch OB’s?
So this has been happening my entire pregnancy but lately it’s been getting a lot worse to the point that I hate going and asking questions when I need the answers. So I am a teen mama by choice and my OB knows this (I’m 19 and can financially afford my daughter) I am now 31 weeks pregnant and her comments have been getting rather inappropriate. She makes it extremely obvious that she does not approve of teen pregnancy which is ok but I think she should be professional about it. She has made comments such as asking me about birth control and then adding at the end “I’m sure you don’t want this to happen again” and this was in my recent appointment. I then in the beginning of my pregnancy asked what they where doing with classes because of COVID and I wanted to see the paper with what they offered so then I could plan what I was going to take. She basically said “you don’t need that it’s still early” (I was about 20 weeks or so at the time) I had to ask the nurse to give me the paper which she gladly did. This recent appointment I had to remind her several times to take my glucose. She didn’t plan to give it to me at all I had to ask her about it once I got into the appointment. Lastly I went into my last appointment and asked her about inducing. My family has huge babies there have been atleast 3 9-10 pound babies in my family. I then tell her that I went for an ultrasound that morning and and I was concerned because she’s measuring 2 weeks ahead in weight. She goes on to laugh at me and tell me that its my fault because I’ve gained to much weight so now the baby is to big not comforting my concern at all. She declined the induction which is ok if she found it not necessary but she still didn’t comfort me and atleast try to make me feel slightly better. I’m just not sure if it’s to late to switch if maybe I’m just being sensitive. Can someone help?!
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