So my husband and I are pregnant with a baby girl! We lost a baby boy in my second trimester and so she’s our rainbow. This is my parents 4th grandchild but his first! I’ve felt like they’ve been faking being excited for the whole pregnancy and now my husband is seeing it too. We’ve tried to include them even though they live an hour from us. We ordered gender canons to tell them. Everyone guessed a boy so when it said girl I thought they’d act a little shocked. I know we did. Anyways that’s dumb little things. My husband is obsessed with baby girl! He’s so excited to be a dad. And I’ve heard him talk to his parents and it hurts his feelings they aren’t happy for us. We’ve been married 2 years we’re 24. Which is old in Utah for a first baby most have theirs at 20... we go over there and they say how’s work. And that’s about it. They could care less about our lives. Well I have HG and had to be admitted to the hospital for 2 nights due to dehydration, low potassium, and blood pressure. My husband messaged his parents and mine to tell them I was in the hospital. And my in-laws didn’t ask once if that baby was okay. Not a single time. My husbands friend asked how she was and how i was and not even our parents did that. Now I’m on an IV 3+ times a week. They told me I’ll probably only make it to 37 weeks and we’ll probably have a premie to 4-5 lbs. Idk it just kinda bugged me that they wouldn’t even ask my husband if the baby was good. I’m not their favorite so I don’t care if they ask about me. But I know it’s important to my husband. I think we’ve decided to take a family break. We were supposed to go to Cali next week but now we aren’t. I always thought when we were dating once we got married it would get better. It didn’t. Then oh once it’s been a couple years... nope. Oh maybe when we have kids!? I guess hell no. Ugh.