I need both support and advice.

Me and my husband have been trying for around 16 months, I was on birth-control for 8 years before and I know it takes you a while to get it out of your system.

Well earlier this month I had 10 positive test “yes ten” I went to my first drs appointment and it was horrible, the NP was rude and just said “we will see what your bloodwork shows tomorrow” I never got it that day but the next day they called me and said my levels were off so I went in did more blood work and told them my back was cramping and I didn’t feel right. they didn’t even check me, I came home and I was bleeding, I called them and they made me come back up there for blood work that I already did that morning.

When I got back home the 2nd time i was pouring, the doctor called the next morning to say my levels dropped even more and that’s when I told her I lost the baby, I didn’t get anything but “come back Monday for more bloodwork” she made me feel like my baby didn’t matter that I didn’t matter and that hurt.

I’m switching DRs I know six weeks is early I know that it’s common but it broke mine and my husbands heart.

When is to soon to try again to get pregnant, does anyone have positive pregnancy stories after a miscarriage? Any advise?