Cheating

My husband and I have been married for about 3 years and during the first 6 months of our marriage he told me he regretted marrying me in a argument about money and me going back to school and took back my wedding ring. After he apologies and said he was vex and he is sorry we more pass this. It had another occasion where we was going by hang out with his friend (female friend) on the way there he told me to take off my wedding rings because "I don't need it" I ask him why he explain that he do not want her to ask why she was not invited and he never told her we are married. I got angry but I didn't want to to make a scene so I when along with it. He act that like i was the three wheel the whole night. As usual i talk to him about it he get mad tell me I'm insecure and he married me and she is just a friend. A next occasion with the same friend I came home from work and she was home alone with her and both of them look like they just came out of the shower. Again say something he said I'm insecure stupid a hole and she is a friend and only when he is by her house I does be happy. But long story short he cheating me with her and a next girl and give her money. When I working double shift and clearly out my saving to pay bills if I ask him for money to help pay the bills all of sudden I'm the bad guy