I’m not here to ask for advice I’m just here to vent. My man works really hard painting houses outside in the 110 degree heat most days and it has allowed me to have the opportunity to stay at home with my almost 2-year-old and three month old baby since my first was born (almost 2 whole years) I couldn’t be more grateful for the experience of getting to be by their side every single day and watching them grow and reach all their milestones! with that being said it can be a lot some days especially Lately since my daughter is entering into the 2 phase & my three-month-old is no longer a sleepy newborn. I’m so grateful and appreciative that my man works so hard for us and I know he’s hot as hell in this heat but Anytime I bring up being overwhelmed with the kids he always compares my job to his like mine isn’t just as hard. And then when he comes home And I ask him to help me with things he kinda just puts on me that he’s been working all day but I feel like my job is NEVER ending and I just need a break sometimes. Not only do I take care of the babies I do ALL of the house hold chores and cooking and laundry. No I’m not outside and things could be WAY more difficult for me and I know his job is WAY harder but sometimes I just wish I could bitch to him about how overwhelmed I am without him comparing me to what he does. ☹️ so that’s why I’m here, I think most mothers can understand/relate to how hard it really is to be a mother whether you’re a stay at home mom or not, it’s TOUGH work! Like I said I’m not looking for any advice I’m just here to vent because I know a lot of other mothers go through the same thing. Sorry if I sound ungrateful that’s no where near my intentions, I go back and forth in my head wondering if I should even be complaining & I feel guilty for it but I just can’t help it sometimes!