Feeding schedules

Sooo I know that every baby is different- but what are your babies feeding schedules like? My baby just turned 9 months and is doing really good with baby food, puffs, and some really soft table foods. She loves real food and always grabs for mine or my husbands. But I am so scared to give her anything that she might could choke on. It terrifies me.

I also am getting confused with how much formula she should be getting everyday now- everything I’ve looked at has said something different. I wish I could just find something concrete to tell me what to do 😭😭😭🙈🙈🙈 I feel like if I make a wrong decision she won’t be getting the right nutrients or it will throw her sleeping off (right now she sleeps best if she gets a bottle close to bedtime around 7oclock and is full- but I can’t do this if she eats solids after like 5oclock because she gets full and doesn’t want her bottle??) she starts getting hungry at like 5:30-6 and I don’t know if I should give her solids with us because that is when we eat or to go ahead and give her a bottle even though it’s two hours from bedtime. I am so confused 😭 idk how to get in the meals and the bottles and ugh it stresses me out

ETA: she’s also getting SUPER distracted and not interested in her bottles- I can really only get her to eat more than a few ounces at bedtime if she’s sleepy