Okay, so my boyfriend, or daughter's father, and I argue constantly, he has no interest in having sex (with me) of any kind, we just don't get along anymore. A big part of it on my side is the sex issue. I'm the one who would initiate it way back when it did happen. But now he seems like he can't stand for me to touch him. I mean what guy in this world turns down oral??

There have been so many things that have happened, but that would take forever to explain.

My problem at this point is that I do not like the arguing because it takes place around our daughter. I know its hurtful to her in many ways.

I just really want/need him to leave but I can't get him to go. I'm miserable and I'm just so broken. How can I get thru to him that he has to go?