Was this too harsh?

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My partner doesn’t get any days off right now and works a lot, so it’s been hard on us both. My son is a year and has crazy energy, I’m pregnant and absolutely exhausted. On Friday and Saturday he gets up 2 hours earlier to go to work and be back sooner for band practice on Saturday and practicing at home the whole day Friday. Baby wakes up at 8 and SO wakes up at 6 today, he was being very loud, and he also forgot his clothes in the upstairs right next to baby’s room which woke baby up.
I sent him this while he was at work, but now I feel like I was too harsh. I’m soooo tired right now, I feel like maybe I didn’t think this through before sending?

Thank you guys! I guess looking back I was partially venting, I called and explained that I was upset and I was sorry if it was over  the top.

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Its fine...but tbh I'm a bit jealous that you are getting 6 hours of sleep a night. That's pretty impressive all things considered.

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I mean it’s not harsh but why do we (me included) text our partners these kinds of things. This shouldn’t be a super confrontational conversation. 
I do think your comment could have been simpler. No need to go into how much sleep you need and how bad your day is going to be. I would be mildly annoyed at that if I read it. 
He woke the baby up and he needs to try to be quieter. That’s it.

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If it makes you feel better I have a 1 year old boy with crazy energy, a 3 year old girl who is practically going through a phase where shes stuck to my hip, prob because I'm pregnant with baby #3  Lol 😅  oh and a great husband who loves to play video games late at night so when I'm sleeping I constantly wake up to a random loud scream to the game. He doesn't mean to but yeah.. I just fall back asleep. I kid you not I get a solid 3 Maybe 4 hrs sleep. Lol  I see it like this we all can do more then we give our self credit for. We make excuses and give it life. Us women are so strong especially as moms we dont get sick days, like at all if I'm sick well I'm not cause it's still buisness as usual. We have to stop feeling bad for ourselves and stop believing we cant function without our beauty sleep lol. Try napping more through the day it's hard for me but when I can it's the best. Stay positive. If u have to wake up earlier cause babys up then so be it. It won't be forever they grow up in a blink of an eye. No reason to let yourself get frustrated. You're gonna be alright girl. 
Heavenly father help her get through all the battles she goes through. Give her strengh, energy even when she feels she doesn't have it. Help her see things  with positivity. Give her patience and peace. Father make sure she has and continue to have a great pregnancy experience. Help her through the painful moments and give her a happy healthy baby. In Jesus mighty name. Amen.

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I don’t think you were too harsh considering the circumstances. You didn’t lash out in the text, you gave him a reminder. I get it...I have an active toddler and am pregnant. 😴

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I think it’s fine.

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It’s fine but you should have this conversation in person not via text.

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Damn I wish I could get 6 hours of sleep a night 😂😂

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Um you were not harsh. 
I don’t think it’s fair that he is spending an entire day doing band practice. Did I read that right?

Was this too harsh?

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