The guy I’m seeing disappeared for a weekend

I’m very, very apprehensive with men. I honestly only give one chance and once I experience even one red flag, I’m gone.

So the guy I’m seeing travels back and forth to Florida often to send his niece and nephew back and forth to their parents. This time he travelled, I didn’t hear from him from Friday morning when he flew out to Monday afternoon when he was heading back to work. He made up excuse after excuse as to why I hadn’t heard from him. He said he partied too hard and got too high (he’s a nonsmoker) and was just too busy to talk for 3 days straight. When he texted me to explain himself, I just said “okay 😊”. I’m not argumentative or anything. I knew he wasn’t telling the entire truth, and I didn’t want to hear any more bs.

It’s now been almost two weeks since, and I haven’t gotten out of my distancing mood at all, even though I really, really like him. I don’t even have the urge to text him all the time anymore or to tell him goodnight. We still talk, but it’s very bland and he even noticed that I stopped calling him “babe”. This is all from one weekend of not speaking. I can’t help it. One red flag and I shut down.

Is this behavior okay? Am I being dramatic?