Who initiates sex?

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Sorry guys. Can you tell what we're fighting about?

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Whats sex? 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

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My husband got upsets because it was always him. I had my second baby in May and it completely fell on the wayside for me. I just never thought about it and was rarely in the mood. Now that we have adjusted to the two kid life it is better. 
Often it becomes..” both kids are asleep, we have 15 minutes... and..GO” lol
I’d say it’s pretty even now.

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This is actually a huge argument between us. He never starts it because he worries if he did that I would think he was only with me for sex (which I know sounds really insane, but he was in an abusive relationship in the past). However of course I wouldn't think that, being that we live together, have a baby and are getting married next year. But also I have to be the one to initiate it, I feel like I'm ugly and he doesn't care about me, and that there's something wrong with me for having a higher sex drive than him. But also it's not even like it's a high sex drive, It's not necessarily sex though, I just want physical touch and time together where we're not just watching TV.
The past few months I've just flat out stopped initiating it (unless it's been a week), because I got tired of always initiating, getting upset, having conversations about it, working on it and then repeat. It's been going... better.  But we've still had the conversation a few times. We are really busy these days though, but I guess that's what makes me feel worse when we don't have it.

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My hubby was recently complaining to me about this! I rarely initiate because I like it when he does...it turns me on. I do randomly and inappropriately touch him throughout the day and tell him how sexy he is so that has to count for something!

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Nopeeeee. Too pregnant 😂

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Haven’t had sex in over 6 months now 🤷‍♀️

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